I am also a stay at home mom but I consider writing my other job. You can absolutely be a feminist and a housewife. It’s expensive to send kids to daycare and it’s good for them to be at home with us. Don’t EVER sell yourself short, what we do is very important. Also I consider myself a writer with housewife as my secondary job. Start thinking the same way if it makes you feel empowered. I know it does make me feel better to think of it like that. 👊